I've never quite understood women who go off on rampages and hate their ex's. Nor do I get the "baby mamas" who refuse to let their children see their father for no other reason except they believe somewhere that they are hurting the father. No, you are only hurting your children in the long run. Grow up already. You loved this man at one time or another. You decided to have one or more children with him so when things go sour don't hold it against your children and don't use your children as pawns. It is disgusting and unnecessary.
I do know that there are some men that really don't deserve to see their children but I believe these men are not as prevalent as some women state. I don't understand why some women wouldn't want the father of her children involved with his children if he wants to be.
My life is so much easier since I stopped being angry with the father of my oldest daughter. It wasn't helping me in any way and it certainly wasn't helping Sofie. I want her to have a great relationship with her dad. I don't ever want her looking back on her childhood and think that I stood in the way of a relationship between her and her father. She has two parents and we have to work together to raise a confident, happy, secure and well-loved little girl.
I don't believe you can or should start a new relationship till you get over the anger you have for your ex. It is not fair to your new partner. Work through the anger and attempt to find peace with your new life. Relationships take two to work and take two to break. What was your role in the breakup?
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